Jengo's Job Search Tips

Tip #15: Don't Let Rejections Get You Down

Here is one of the basic principles of job hunting: it takes a big pile of no's to get a yes. Most interviews (all but the final one) will result in rejections. Sure, you can avoid rejections by not submitting any applications or resumes or deciding not to work, but for most of us, rejections are simply unavoidable. To minimize rejection, however, here are some tips.

First, know what you want to do. If you merely "go shopping" for jobs to see what's out there, the chances are slim that you'll find an organization looking for someone just like you. Instead, make a list of things you want to do and ask professionals who are doing those things, "In what places are these activities most often done?" In short, targeting your job search is a good way to minimize rejection.

Second, treat any interview as a treasured gift. Few people get interviews. Research the companies thoroughly, rehearse answers to typical questions, dress appropriately, and follow up with a perfectly written thank-you.

Third, keep a positive attitude. Remember, rejection happens to everyone else too. Form a mental picture of the positive self you'd like to become in an interview rather than focusing on what scares you. Being rejected doesn't mean you are a failure, it means the fit wasn't right. The right job is still out there, maybe only a few "no's" away.